First let me start this by saying: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAA.
Next up lets explain what happened. Some radfem on twitter, lets call her Radfem A, decided she would mass report my posts for “discrimination against lesbians” – because I said my partner is a lesbian. Which is a clear abuse of the report system its tantamount to saying “if i don’t agree with you, I will attempt to get you silenced”. Which is obviously not something any rational person should stand for. So I didn’t. I made fun of her a little in my post about my ban on the assumption it was her reporting which got me suspended. It could still be so, as Radfem A knew about my old account and the reason I’m banned is because “multiple account use”.
That’s when Radfem B comes in – I’m calling her this because her blog is huge compared to mine and I would rather not contribute to her viewership by putting a link here. Radfem B saw the post and decided to jot down a nice little comment about how neither me and my partner are lesbians. Of course, sensing her imminent triggering, I couldn’t help my self and I decided to be a bit troll-y in response. That’s when the full triggering happened, she started throwing out “You’re a man!!!!” in my comments section, all whilst preaching about how disrespectful to lesbians I was being. I know. The irony.
Just when I thought she couldn’t get any more triggered, she wrote a post about me! Here it is in full, only thing missing is the screencaps of the comments which can be found on my post right here.
Now if you compare the comments section to this post you’ll notice how wildly Radfem B decides to misrepresent me. I called her disrespectful, not “phobic”. Why? Because she came to my blog and made a purposeful choice, in full knowledge of my trans woman status, to call me a man and use the wrong pronouns. Which is absolutely disrespectful. Its still her choice and I would never want to force someone into using my pronouns. I’ve always said pronouns are something you earn and you aren’t entitled to them. It isn’t this that got on my nerves enough to respond though.
Its the fact that she had to go back to her blog which has significantly more followers and active bloggers liking her posts and commenting on them and try to – as they call it on Twitter – drag me for stuff I had never even said.
This is the pathetic world of rad feminism in a nutshell. Some of them can’t handle having an actual conversation with you, or just accepting that you disagree on points, no, its not that simple. They must go and smear you in front of all their friends so they can say how brave and bold she is. Not even making that up either, in the comments someone actually calls her brave and bold for coming to my blog, being a dick to me, then posting a blog about it where she entirely misrepresents what was said.
@RadfemB if you read this. You’re a joke. If you want people to be respectful towards you then start by being respectful towards other people. You can’t expect it if you refuse to give it. I forgive you and any time you need help pulling the stick out of your ass, I’m there for you buddy.